Some of us make mistakes and, in our minds, we beat ourselves up for it. Some of us make mistakes and, in our minds, we beat others up for it. But in either case, the upset we suffer in our hearts will be the same. Rather than beating up anyone, we need to take it up with God. For only through Him can we be at peace in our hearts, and be balanced in our minds, to resolve problems, and have harmony in our lives, our families, our communities, and our nation.